I love my hijab

In the international day of hijab , a day to defend hijab from the wrong allegations against it, I have very mixed feelings .
This year an american  muslim woman had a new idea in mind .She proposed wearing it for one day by nonmuslim to have a glimpse about muslims women lives wearing it.it was interesting to read the comments of  these women and what was more interesting was to see their pictures donning it .some were eome were rather very funny though.more than 5 thousand women from different backgrounds and religions participated .i respected their courage and openness.To some it felt weird and other felt comfortable.of course one day is not enoguh to judge our lives right but it may help many to understand that hijab doesnt make me less woman or free than any other one.
all this reminded me of the question i used to encounter when i decided to wear it..why ? i decieded to wear it first as a political reaction to the massacare by israeal in jenen in palestin.it way my way of resestance then i read and understood more about hijab so now i wear it because im a muslim ,and  as a muslim i should submit to whatever Allah orders me and ALLah ordered us is quran to wear it ...this reason should be enough .but ialso became so attached to it espiclay after the banning  of it in france and turky ,seeing all these girls who had to leave thier schools or jobs to wear it touched me so much.i didnt have this stong will before but now i do  . if it was simple peice of cloth why did those who hate it tried to force women to take it off in every single way .
 walking in hijab to me is like walking with an aura around me  ..i feel the protection and the peace from GOD..i feel supirior to those winning their ways by exposing more of their bodies ..

Misogyny is not islamic

Recently I read a comment of a convert muslim woman who complained about womens status in the muslim society , saying that  she felt women are usaully treated less than men or  hidden as a shameful thing .She explianed that if its not for her knoweldge of womens role in Quran and  how much freedom and respect is given to them ,she would have left Islam .

Now that is SHAMEFUL... for our muslim socity to stay in the strains of the preislamic way of thinking ,or in an era of history when illetracy spreaded amongst the muslim society and traditions became religion .Yes ,despite the rights and freedom given to women in many aspects of life in our society ,there is still this look at women as subordinates to men.She should get married to anyone,being married is always better than not .She shouldnt get divorce if shes is suffering as a wife because there is nothing worse than being a"divorced woman" ,so stay married even to a monster..if her husband cheats on her " oh come on, he a man ,just let it go " but if SHE does the same ,she will be literaly "eaten " .And of course the man who respects and honers his wife is either weak or simple  .All these views are   never islamic or even close to islam.

If  you study these ideas carefully you will found that  they have no religious background but only social one.The treatment of prophet Mohammed pbuh for women was totally the opposite and Quran and Sunnah are full of recommendations to treat woman nicly.But in a sociaty where books, programs and lectures are being held to teach "the husbands right ,the sins of disobaying him and how to be the best wife" and lays no equal pressure on men  to do the same .Nobody expalins to him his wifes rights ,women need for respect and passion and his role in marrige. So whenever the wife complains , she is just " nagging"as all women does and the strangest thing is that sometimes his mother "which is a women of course" is the one who encourages him to disrespect his wife and keep his    " manhood" which means according to the twisted way of thinking ,not to show any mercy or spoil his wife  or even smile in her face,because she would control him. It  is not marrige its war..

Calamity in Eygpt...

Im not usually a pessimest ,but things in Eygpt are driving me crazy .Im shattered between the president whom i tottally suport and his actions that drove many patriots to defy him... Mr Morsi is a good person and maybe he  has great intentions but thats not enough .The constitutional announcment was wrong ,not because the idea was wrong but because it was not analyzed and studied enough and he didnt gather enough support for such a huge step .When you decide to anounce a law that makes you fortified and untouchable in a nation that dropped such a leader almost a year ago ,when you know that almost half the nation didnt vote for  you and almost all private media and even gornmental one is against you , and that you have local and external enmies waiting for any chance to destroy you ,then you must be more careful ..
 
There is also the muslim brotherhood who are his only supproters nowadays ..it seems that they didnt learn from their previous mistakes.. they still didnt work on their comuncation skills in there speeches or appearnce in media  .They still believe they are representatives of islam or appear so.And still are injecting religion amid political views,such as their latest demonstration annoncements.If  you support the consistution and the president what has the sharia to do with it ..does it mean that those who are against it are aganist sharia .. Thats absulotly wrong ... All that even hurts their position more than it helps . May ALLAH protect Eygpt and guide its people..
 

yes,we are seculars..!!!

well. im adressing the muslim society here... i can claim the most of the muslims i know are living as secluars ..can this be true ? well ,maybe you too are living as one ...
im talking about people who pray ,recite Quran,fast ,women who wear hijab  but tihnk and live as seculars .becase watch them when they are in touble for example with thier bosses ,they would feel so sad thier lives would turn upside down being afraid thet thier boss hates them or they are going to be fired .so they live in stress and fear..they try everythnig to please thier bosses from complements ,presents"rashwa" ..and toally forget that ALLAH conrtols everything .that Alaah can make anybody hate you even if you please them in every way .that Allah is the One who feeds you not your boss or company ..and this is apllied to every thing we do in our lives ..
im always amazed from those who want to have some fun and enjoy their time so they commit sins,they travel to beaches, watch haram ,and say we are just looking for some happines ,well,wake up bro ,happines is granted by ALLah and he surely wont give it to those who disobey him .

yes for shafeek???? strange!!!

I have been dumbfounded for days now ..and still shocked from the election results in Egypt .i spent the whole night wondering how could someone choose shafeek.. where were those people when he was a minister during the corrupt regime of mubarak.. and he trusted him to be a prime minister..how could mubarak whom they described as corrupt choose a "clean" person to be a prime minister ?.. I mean i can understand that there are those who loved mubarak because they lived from the cramps he threw to them ..but how could a normal simple person vote for him ....unless he is areal "simple" minded....when i hear their arguments about how shafeek is different ,how he was not given a chance when he prime minister ..i wonder how can these people believe these lies? lets say he is different and all the allegation of his corruption are surprisingly false..OK who is supporting and funding his campaign now ,every one knows its the previous regime,why do think they are funding him ? are they giving him money for nothing ? of course not ..they are paying and paying to return back to ruling the country ....so by choosing shafeek you are bringing back the vicious mubarak regime ..but now more corrupt because they are now angry and have to revenge and compensate for their loses... well ..still want shafeeek  OK so  you simple minded idiots deserve him..vote for him and enjoy being crushed like ants because you truly deserves it..

the secret

 

 yesterday,i came through some words that changed my life .They may be known by many but for someone who worries alot like me it was like coming apon mine of gold ..its actully a simple saying by prophet mohamed that those who keep ALLAH in the speech will have all their prayers answered ,whenever they raise their hands to ALLAH asking for anything HE is there for them,the only condition is "continuation ",they should remmber always to praise ALLAH  or ask him for forgivness .
i keep wodernig how could someone be secular.not believeing that there is a much larger power guiding and protecting him.for me ,if i was seclar i wouldnt last for long .i would commit suicied..really.its not because of pproblems or hardships but just the feeling of insecurity and worriness would kill me. the idea of being scared about my family and loved ones without being albe to do anything to them.the injustice of people and life without being sure the their will punishment  to those free mosteres out their .. icant live with this feeling ..i cannot imagine how could anybody do it.

life is so logical would you know why you are here and you have you guidance with you ,which is for me quran and sunna ..if you understand your guidance book and follow it ,no power on earth could weaken you..but without a guidance anything would go wrong .

fadi

i love you fadi
my husband